Geez, that could probably explain why I am still single, Ha! But I am still skeptical about these studies because I think I have quiet a number of girls who get hit on severally on-line. Just last week a friend (black woman) signed on to one of these on-line dating sites and she got a gazillion hits. What exactly could she be doing right as a black woman. And just within that same week a friend confided in me, telling me how she can’ t get herself a man on and off-line. So I ask myself what could these women be doing right or wrong? Maybe these surveys could or could not be right . Now what exactly are these surveys or studies saying, read on to find out, black women why exactly you aint getting the hit.
Via NPR reports:
When it comes to dating the rules aren’t always black and white. And when you add race into the equation things can become even more complicated.
The online dating website “Are You Interested” analyzed over 2.4 million interactions on their site and found that Asian women are more likely to get a message from a man of any race—unless those men are Asian.
AYI also found that white men are pursued the most by women of all races—except black women, who are least likely to get a message from anyone.
“I think it’s very disheartening for African-American women” said Beauty Shop guest and The Root.com contributing editor Demetria Lucas. “It’s always the same result and it’s always about how no one’s reaching out for black women. It can get very depressing for someone who is looking for love.”
What happened to post-racial America?
Via TIME Magazine reports:
Online dating — as well as regular dating — is a very segregated activity, but a new study suggests that it may not take much to break racial and ethnic barriers.
As much as we like to think that America is a postracial society, Americans still prefer to date someone from their race. Studies have shown that this preference is stronger than almost any other when it comes to finding mates, although it’s not entirely clear why.
White folks, both male and female, overwhelmingly made more contact with whites, which is hardly surprising since there are more white people on the site to choose from. White folks were the most likely to seek out people of another race. Minority groups (those who identify themselves on OKCupid as black, Hispanic, Indian or Asian) were much more likely to stay in their own racial lane when in search of mates online.
Only Asian women didn’t fit this trend. They were more likely to contact white guys than other Asian guys, which my Asian girlfriends tell me is because, in part, they’re not fans of the traditional role that girlfriends and wives have played — and continue to play — in many Asian societies. They were more likely to respond to white guys too, but then again, all races were most likely to respond to white guys.
Again Asian women were among the outliers; once contacted by someone from another race, their interracial exchanges went up 238%. For Asian men it was 222%, and for black women it was more than 100%.
Why do you think Black women have such a hard time finding a date online??Your opinions are most valued here.